It is imperative that you honestly reflect on these questions and answer them about yourself. These are the essential characteristics of Christian manhood. These are the most important attributes to strive for and develop as you seek to grow in Christian maturity as a man. They will make you a man whom God can use, and a father whose children will be greatly blessed to have you as their father.
The simplest and most accurate way to answer these questions is to honestly look at the consistent choices, decisions, patterns, and habits of your daily life, and the most prevalent attitudes of your heart. These will give you the clearest picture of who you actually are, versus who you aspire to become. Who you are, and who you aspire to be are two different things. Make sure to distinguish between the two.
