AVOID THEM LIKE THE PLAGUE THEY ARE!
Eccl. 7:26 NLT
I discovered that a seductive woman is more bitter than death. Her passion is a trap, and her soft hands will bind you.
Proverbs 7:21 NLT
So she seduced him with her pretty speech. With her flattery she enticed him.
The woman approached him, dressed seductively and sly of heart. She is the brash, rebellious type who never stays at home.
Proverbs 6: 24-25 NLT
These commands and this teaching will keep you from the immoral woman, from the smooth tongue of the adulterous woman. Don’t lust for her beauty, don’t let her coyness seduce you.
Proverbs 5:8 NLT
Run from her! Don’t go near the door of her house!
Listen to me, my sons, and pay attention to my words. Don’t let your hearts stray away towards her. Don’t wander down her wayward path. For she has been the ruin of many!
Today I write to you as forthrightly as I ever have. We live in a day and age when we are surrounded by these kinds of women. They are in the high school hallway, all over the college campus, in your suburban coffee shops, at the fitness clubs, and by the millions on the smartphone in your pocket! We live in a day and age of systemic immorality, and systemic immodesty. It is embedded in the very culture we live in. What women today call athletic wear, we know is really “show off your body wear!” You can hardly go to any public place without some woman shoving her body parts in your face by the deliberate, intentional way they seductively dress and flaunt their sexuality. It fills me with disgust and rage.
21 years ago, I used to belong to a gym called Ballys US Fitness. It had a cheap membership, was close to home, and had the equipment to help me get into better shape. After being a member for about a year, I began to notice a change in the way women dressed who were coming to work out. One particular day, I was lying on the bench doing some bench presses. Directly in front of me were the treadmill machines. As I rose to sit on the front of the bench to rest for a moment, directly in my line of sight was a woman walking on the treadmill with her backside to me, dressed in an incredibly inappropriate way. I was livid! I mean it just filled me with rage. I had come here to simply work out, not have some woman shove her body parts in my face. I got up off the bench, grabbed my stuff, and went to the front desk. I asked for the manager, and said, ” Do you guys have some kind of dress code in here?” He looked shocked! “Hmm, well, kind of.” I said, “You see that woman over there, that is disgusting that you allow women in here dressed like that.” He said, “Well it doesn’t bother me.” I said, “So you won’t do anything?” Nope, he said. Right then and there I said, “Get out my membership card, I ripped it up in front of him and said cancel my membership right now. I will never be back and you will never get any more of my money!”
I bought my Total Gym, and began my home workouts, and never looked back.
Men, we need to face reality, these kinds of women will destroy your life. They will flatter you, flirt with you, distract you and shove their body parts right in your face. I hate it, I despise it and refuse to tolerate it.
They disgust me as much as the despicable woke left. I hate it as much as I hate critical race theory! It enrages me as much as the wicked lies of the media. I have trained my heart and my soul to hate it and treat it as the vile plague that it is.
All of us as men, must retrain our brains and our value system and become warlike in our mentality towards these kinds of women. To most men, women are the most beautiful thing in the world. It is part of the nature of our manhood. But, we must learn to see it for the tremendous evil that it is. Seductively dressed, immoral women are a plague that will destroy your life! It will rot you out, gut your soul, and ruin your life.
REFUSE TO LET THEM! STAY AWAY FROM THEM!! DON’T END UP LIKE SAMSON!
I have gotten up and walked out of more than one place I have been before because of this kind of thing.
Men, we must be militant and warlike in our attitude towards this in our lives. We must let it fill us with genuine disgust and revulsion, and see it for the destructive plague that it is.
Find ways to avoid these women, stay away from these women, and keep them from having access to your life. Do whatever it takes, even if it means destroying your smartphone with a hammer, and simply using a flip phone. If technology presents an overwhelming temptation for you, then create ways to live without it as much as possible.
I have found it to be a tremendous help for me to make a prearranged, preplanned righteous pathway for me to walk on in my life’s daily routines and running errands. It has helped me greatly to avoid the places these women hang out, and the temptation they present to a Christian man who is seeking to honor God with his life.
Men, do not lose heart and give up the fight. There is hope for you. God can and will help you. Start by studying and pondering the verses I shared at the beginning of this article. Think about their implications to your life. Grow in wisdom, study the teachings of Proverbs, then follow the advice in this article, and retrain your brain, preplan your life as best you can to avoid these women every way and everywhere you can.
Let yourself feel the disgust and righteous rage that is truly in the soul of a righteous man. Hate what is evil, feed that hate, and get militant and warlike in your spirit about this. You will be amazed at how empowering it is to your life.
*To be very clear, so no one misunderstands my meaning or intention. I do not mean you declare war on women, and do them harm. I am not advocating you walk up to them and call them out or rebuke them for their clothes. I have never done this nor ever would. I mean you are warlike in your attitude to avoid them like the plague because you hate their ungodliness, and the ruin they bring to lives.
Helping you become a Strong Disciple,
Because of Jesus,
Pastor Mark Darling